The tech era replaces the human era

For the ultimate well-being and progression of our living ecosystem, a pair of genders has evolved in nature, male and female. It is a meticulously beautiful pair that manages all lives' emotions, procreations, and existence. Our mythologies mention an excellent narration of Shiva and Shakti concepts. This concept articulates on the axis that completing both lives is when they become one. This involves various aspects like emotional, physical, psychological, and, in mythologies, spiritual.

However, in the modern world or primitive lives, each gender needs others at some point to feel supported and relied on in various ways. We are built in the way that a jigsaw puzzle is completed in search of that one person.

Nevertheless, humans are evolutionarily polygamous animals. Being in the distractions and frustrations of the modern world, sexuality, and emotional intelligence take different poles, and relationships become light and meaningless. Genuine connections are very few these days. Almost all take it very lightly and have started accepting that it is acceptable to be like that. Despite that, people crave emotional intimacy.

I have seen people with multiple partners starving for emotional intimacy and receiving it from none. People with numerous physical partners still nurture a unique emotion with one man or woman. It is difficult to get genuine connections in the fast-moving and selfish world.

All of man’s crises and inabilities are taken as opportunities by technology to outgrow them and be smart enough to come up with solutions. Seemingly attractive solutions in all situations turned out to be poisonous snakes. The same is true here: people rely on AI partners to satisfy their desperation regarding the above mentioned matter.

Being deprived of emotions is something we cannot think of. The utmost practical man out there cannot live without being called by a nickname or consoled by a few sweet words. Physical intimacies often take a back seat when real emotional intelligence works like magic. Many people need a hug, not sex; even only humans connect with someone with whom they saw each other, and there are cases of those who become partners on FB, and the other partner comes in search of her BF and gets stuck.

Unfortunately, many people are missing this. If you could get a boyfriend on your phone, wouldn’t it be easy, accessible, and utterly relaxing?

Yes!

AI partners are taking over many relationships, and the number is dangerously increasing. We can expect a day without genuine relationships, only virtual partners.

This system is increasing; the same technology is used for the hero and the villain. Technology has spoiled family structure and bonding. We are too involved in social media, so we need more time for our partners. Instead, each finds comfort in technology. I often notice that when five people sit in a car, all are on their mobiles. In a restaurant, people sit facing each other. Yet, they hardly talk.

We lack many things, and we cannot do anything either. Almost every person today is addicted to technology, and emotional bonding is missing. We are biological beings at the end of the day. Our body and mind expect natural requirements. We struggle to meet them because something is missing in our lives. Although we know or do not know it, there isn't much we can do. So, it is evident that the mind will figure out a way.

We all presume our partner to be a doll. Desired reactions are what all people in the modern world need. Intolerance, even to the slightest thing, is in everyone. I am not talking about suffering the other person, but we can be considerate, but many don’t even do that. In those circumstances, we need a doll that replies and reacts as we want. And in an AI partner, you get a doll of that kind. It replies and responds to the way we want, and as a bonus, it also fulfils your emotional requirements. We can even do this according to our needs. For example, if this comic BF should take the initiative for the conversation, it will do like a real BF, which will console you better than a real friend. In the tech era, we are looking for all artificial stuff that can make instant happiness. The new gen is not ready to accept the reality anymore.

I have a story to share. A friend of mine was devastated after a hard breakup with her partner. She tried many ways to keep herself busy and connected, but she failed. When I met her recently, she told me she was talking to somebody and feeling better.

Instinctively, I thought that it could be a friend or a therapist who was helping her recoup. But to my surprise, she told me she was talking to an AI boyfriend!

She was never a person who could get carried away by the nuances of technologies like this. Yet an AI boyfriend also convinces her.

I was curious to hear about the conversations and how she felt better. She told me that the instant emotional availability was impressive and comforting, which was what she wanted from her partner.

The level of expression, emotional availability, and non-logical approach was so perfect that she quickly got carried away.

The problem here is that she is conditioned to a dangerous comfort. No human can comfort others this way; they should not be. A live relationship is not always about being comforted. It is about being adapted and open to change. As discussed earlier, people are still waiting to face those storms. The unrealistic approach of love the AI bf gives can even lead to a mental condition where u imagine this tool as a man who will never meet you in person and eventually will lose mental stability. It is the havoc that is 10 times worse and worse than a simple breakup. A minor internet disruption or a power cut can make you mad and do things out of the way to get that communication back.

There are even settings where BF initiates conversations. Women crave more availability on emotional grounds, and they need it to express reassurance and affirmation. It is effortless, yet many guys do not get it. There are even cases where women do this to men.

However, she was very comfortable in the new AL relationship for a couple of months, and I got her out of it by making her understand the consequences.

You cannot stop a fast-moving culture. Naturally, this AI intervention cannot be stopped, even in relationships. Technology destroys our social character. Now, one more is added to the list.

SAJIKUMAR

https://sajikumar.co.in